Don't set your goals by what other people deem important.
only YOU know what is BEST for you.

这几句说的真有意思~~
“看别人不顺眼，是自己修养不够。
人愤怒的那一个瞬间，智商是零，过一分钟后恢复正常。
人的优雅关键在于控制自己的情绪，用嘴伤害人，是最愚蠢的一种行为。
我们的不自由，通常是因为来自内心的不良情绪左右了我们。
一个能控制住不良情绪的人，比一个能拿下一座城池的人强大”
要学习避免看人不顺眼，就是一门很大的学问了，不容易，就是这样才更需要学。 ：）
愤怒·的瞬间，虽然只是那么的一瞬间，但是控制不好，搞不好就得罪了别人，造成不必要的误会。所以，自我情绪管理真的很重要。我要拿下一座城池~~ ：P

 like this phrase~  "真正有气质的淑女，从不炫耀她所拥有的一切，她不告诉人她读过什么书，去过什么地方，有多少件衣服，买过什么珠宝，因为她没有自卑感。 "

I had read  these 2 quotes from an e-mail, which are very meaningful.....worth a look and thought of it!

'To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did...'

When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better.


'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.'

God says.....

YOU SAY	GOD SAYS	BIBLE VERSES
You say: "It's impossible"	God says: All things are possible	(Luke 18:27)
You say: "I'm too tired"	God says: I will give you rest	(Matthew 11:28-30)
You say: "Nobody really loves me"	God says: I love you	(John 3:16 & John 3:34 )
You say: "I can't go on"	God says: My grace is sufficient	(II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)
You say: "I can't figure things out"	God says: I will direct your steps	(Proverbs 3:5-6)
You say: "I can't do it"	God says: You can do all things	(Philippians 4:13)
You say: "I'm not able"	God says: I am able	(II Corinthians 9:8)
You say: "It's not worth it"	God says: It will be worth it	(Roman 8:28 )
You say: "I can't forgive myself"	God says: I Forgive you	(I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)
You say: "I can't manage"	God says: I will supply all your needs	(Philippians 4:19)
You say: "I'm afraid"	God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear	(II Timothy 1:7)
You say: "I'm always worried and frustrated"	God says: Cast all your cares on ME	(I Peter 5:7)
You say: "I'm not smart enough"	God says: I give you wisdom	(I Corinthians 1:30)
You say: "I feel all alone"	God says: I will never leave you or forsake you	(Hebrews 13:5)

I get this from a mail sent by Guo Wei, and its very meaningful. So i post it here to share and also to remind myself that God has the perfect timing  to let everything happen, and patience is the most important thing we need to learn! i'm glad i didnt delete this post before reading because sometimes i do :P